Why is my neighbor successful and not ME?

We say, “I know what I want; I know what success is. How come my neighbor down the street is successful and I’m not???”

However you define “success,” isn’t this THE classic frustration?

We THINK we are clear for success—but something else happens.

This is what it means to be of two minds.; this is in fact, the definition of “being of two minds.” On one hand I want “this,” and I keep getting “that.”

You have two minds—this is a GOOD thing

What 20th century mentors did not tell us is, we have two minds, a rational mind which is highly verbal; and, a non-dominat mind, our habit body, who is our silent partner.

Our rational mind THINKS we are clear for success-–but our gut brain (usually) has something else in mind. Hence we “of two minds.”

Once we posit “two minds,” the difference between you and your succesful neighbor is easy to talk about. He or she is single-minded, of one pupose, both minds seeing the same goal in teh same way.

You on the other hand, are of TWO MINDS. One mind has one goal in mind, wants one thing, and your other non-domiantn mind its eye somewhere else or another goal in mind.

Is this starting to sound familiar at all?

If you can find your two minds inside your won psyche, yuo are halfway there. Once you know you have a silent partner, bringing it on board to your conscious goals is only a matter of method, technique and practrice.

The 20th century gave us little language to work simply and effectively with our own psyche. In conventional language, “being of two minds,” is as close as we get to a good description of the inner obstacles to our success here. That’s one reason I wrote the Three Selves volumes where our two minds are outlined, diagrammed and explained comprehensively. No one else had done it; I figured it was time.

The basis of success, of becoming Congruent and Coherent is:

John-Roger has a wonderful definition of how 3D success manifests: Your rational mind and non-dominant mind are both looking the same direction and seeing the same goal, working together, cooperating, in collaboration, one team.

Q: Wait a minute—I have TWO minds?

A: Shortly we’ll do definitions. For now, try to find the idea of “two minds” in a general way in your own life. Do any of these fit you:

Q: Why do I take two steps forward and one step back in my biz?

Q: Why don’t I do the things I know I should be doing to be successful?

Q: why won’t people listen to me?

Q: why wn’t people buy from me?

Q: why is is hard for me to ASK for money?

Q: why I can’t compose a clear niche-platform-message?

Q: why can’t I succeed at what I want to do?”

Q: how do I get rid of this health condition I have done so much to overcome?”

Q: why do I try-try-try and still feel like a failure?”

Q: what’s wrong with me, I’ve tried everything?”

Q: why do I doubt my own successes?

A: Lack of success means you are of two minds. If you are unsuccessful on your goals, you are of two minds. Being of two-minds reduces energetic strength.

Q: How can I build up my energetic strength?

A: By doing anything to increase your Coherence, Integration and Alignment, the new CIA. The fastest ways these days are kinesiology testing; or better, inner testing, of any kind; and on the other hand, the Gestalt Empty Chair exercise.

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