Forgive from your soul: Slow-motion Forgiveness™

Most people can get much more out of forgiving than they currently do. People use forgiveness the way they learned to use affirmations, but forgiveness does not work that way; forgiveness does not work the way  affirmations do.  In fact, as our habit body views them, the two are opposites: affirmations are additive; forgiveness is subtraction.

In working as a Medical intuitive and Self-healing Facilitator, I have yet to find someone using forgiveness optimally. Next to gratitude, forgiveness is our next most under-used tool here.  Of all the Tools That Heal I know of, forgiveness is the easiest to learn, the most effective, truly an “all purpose tool” for self-healing. Next to asking for Love, Light and Angels to be your Partner, forgiveness is probably the most fruitful, “open source” tool EVERYONE can make more use of.  A more effective way to apply forgiveness is given below; you can learn it from this article.  If you get it, please teach it to others!

Q; So how does it work already?

A: Only your soul can forgive. Fortunately, everyone reading this has a soul. If this is unfamiliar to you, I understand. What I’ve learned from a couple thousand client sessions is forgiveness is a soul action. When you forgive, you exercise your Self as a Soul.

Our mind and emotions do not know how to forgive. Only your soul can perform forgiveness; the doing is done by soul. The mind and emotions can prepare; it helps if they are willing and relaxed, the releasing, letting go-and—letting God is a spiritual exercise. The mind and emotions can understand and learn language for, but cannot perform the action of forgiveness, do not have that level of authority in your habit body. Your soul does.

To use forgiveness optimally, people need more than sketchy ideas of what blocks them, where those blocks are and how to release them.

What blocks us, is clusters of related negative incidents

Say you have an issue with feeling rejected; you feel super-sensitive to rejection; this makes it difficult to ask for what you want, because you fear being rejected again.

Do you think a rejection issue formed from one single incident of being rejected? Or do you think it formed from feeling rejected over and over?

Q: Maybe it formed from being rejected one BIG time?

A: It’s a logical question; however, working with a couple hundred people, I have yet to see a significant issue formed from a single negative occurrence. What I see behind the one incident they know about, is a whole set of “dominoes” trailing off into their past lives, of very similar incidents. The one incident they know of from this lifetime I call the “reminder incident” reminding them they still have this unresolved issue. The better assumption is, issues form from multiple instances, from REPETITION of allowing, promoting or creating something negative to occur. Our habit body learns thru repetition and picks up negative habits as easily as it picks up healthy ones.

The basic self, our habit body, records each unresolved incident of negativity. Each time a person feels rejection, the basic self records that. Gifted clairvoyants see these little hurts as pins in your aura. Hence the commonly heard metaphor, “human pin cushion.”

For each issue we have, like rejection, or abandonment, we have many instances of feeling that way. The inner child needs a very simple, childlike way to keep track of all these incidents. So it simply numbers them: the first time I allowed myself to feel rejected, the second time I felt rejected, the third time, etc. Picture a little R. Crumb person inside your head, making chalk marks on a wall, 1,2,3,4 cross hatch, 1,2,3,4 cross hatch, etc.

By definition, all our unresolved issues are sub- and unconscious; otherwise, we would have already dealt with them.

Because most of our unresolved issues are unconscious, furthest awa from our rational mind, our rational mind, our conscous self, is not the sharpest tool in your toolbox to resolve them. Our Self as Soul is plenty sharp enuf to address, release and resolve any unresolved issue we ask. All we have to do is make a clear and specific request to our unconscious creativity. As they say, “if you can feel it, you can heal it.”

Affirmations are additive, forgiveness is subtractive

Q: I know how to forgive: “I forgive my mother.” If I say it once sincerely, I’m done.

A: Hmmm. In my garden I have weeds. If I do not get the roots out, the weeds spout back up later. Mom issues are like this too, perennials not annuals. Tell me if I’m wrong here: Mom issues come up year after year, like weeds with many sets of roots that need to be addressed.

Q: How about saying: “I forgive my mother,” sincerely, every day for 32 days?

A: That’s affirmations. I haven’t seen this work very well to release old issues. Have you?

If you want to redecorate your living room and you have a plan, what do you have to do first? You have to take out the old furniture. You have to subtract first, then you can repaint the walls and so on.

Affirmations are an additive process for adding new images, visions, alignments and enthusiasms. But first you have to make space for the new, take out the trash. Before the inner child can receive and take in the new alignment, old mental-emotional negativity first has to be subtracted.

Affirmation is additive, forgiveness is subtractive. First you subtract, then you add. Make sense? This is why forgiveness is so powerful and pays off so handsomely.

How to make a specific request to forgive

Insert the negative feeling or judgment in the blank below, then say the whole thing OUT LOUD:

“I forgive myself for allowing myself to feel _________________ first time, the second time, the third time 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12 . . . “
Count as long as energy continues to move and clear.

Let’s create no useless rituals. When energy stops moving and creating shifts for you, have the wit to try new words in the blank above until you find a “formula” that moves energy again.

It can be very healing to count to 50 or 100 on an issue. On my own big issues, I count to 1,000. I often do this walking, one number per step. Counting over 1000 does not seem to be that useful. Better to count to 1000 for three days in a row.

You do not need me to do this.
You can do this on your own.

DO make up your own verbal formulas and try them! You know you have the right word formula if energy begins moving and clearing. Feel free to change the words to “hit the nail more on the head.”

Need more assistance? Give me a call 310-280-1176. A more intuitive person who can feel energy moving can check your process and get you back on track.

How does forgiveness work?

To understand forgiveness, it helps to learn how judgment works in the inner child and immune system. Understand judgment and forgiveness is a cinch.

One job the basic self has is recording and storing unresolved disturbances, until they are accessed, and the life lessons extracted. Why? The soul knows all 3D experience is valuable and useful. The basic self records and holds onto all experiences charged with emotion but left unresolved.

For example, say you have an issue with feeling betrayed; you are super-sensitive to any sense you might be betrayed again. Do you think this formed from a single incident? Or do you think this formed from feeling betrayed over and over? For a bona fide issue to form, requires many instances of feeling a negative emotion. For faulty beliefs to become conscious here in 3D, requires much “rehearsing” and reinforcing. The basic self records each of those instances. Some clairvoyants see these hurts, these judgments, as pins. Hence the commonly heard phrase “human pin cushion.”

If we have many instances of similar unresolved feelings, the inner child needs a simpler way to keep track of them. So it simply numbers them: the first time I allowed myself to feel betrayed and let down, the second time I allowed myself to feel betrayed and let down, etc.

The good news is, since incidents are recorded by the number?they can be forgiven by the number!

Soul is most obviously visible and active as creative intelligence, attention, intention, choice and forgiveness. Forgiveness can only be done by your soul. The mind and emotions do not know how to forgive. Slow-motion forgiveness goes like this:

“I forgive myself for allowing myself to feel (the negative emotion, i.e. betrayal), the first time, the second time, the third time 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12 . . .

Count as long as energy continues to move and clear. In 1:1 sessions with clients, we go as high as 30 or 50. In the next three days, it can be very healing for clients do it again–as long as energy moves somehow. I count to 1000 on my issues. I often do this walking, one number per step.

Please do make up your own verbal formulas and try them! You know you have the right word formula if energy moves and clears. Feel free to change the words to “hit the nail more on the head.” Often clients cannot feel the energy move. A more intuitive person can tell them what’s occurring. Give me a call if you get stuck.

Find Health Intuitive Bruce Dickson at HealingCoach.org.  Find his Free Report, The Meaning of Illness Is Now an Open Book right here:  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1lIctCLNW0dloxdEPVXhb5HVWOnn4ZYiSkKTxf1MbioI/edit?hl=en_US

Author of 12 books/eBooks on self-healing, Bruce has been seeing clients professionally since 2001. His passion is resolving wellness concerns for people who wish to avoid drugs and surgery. He founded Spirit of Giving Holistic Consults and co-founded the Westside Chamber of Commerce. With masters in both school counseling and Spiritual Science, he follows both the Law of Spiderman and the Law of Gentleness for Healers.

In his own words: With your permission, I talk directly with your immune system to learn what is oppressing your cells. When your habit body lets go of the negativity, your cells go back to being healthy! How do I do this?  The easy way, from your own Guidance and not from my mind. All solutions are tested against your highest good to make sure they work for you.

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